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Taking Care of Our Own

by Beth Haug, Custer, SD

Partners in Policymaking Class of 1998

SOUTH DAKOTA

I have recently finished reading a series of books about the fictional town of Mitford. The stories chronicle the lives of the residents of Mitford, season after season, year after year. What sounds boring is actually so delightful it is hard to stop reading. What makes it so enjoyable is the way that certain events in the stories can spark a personal memory for the reader. That happened to me several times over while reading these books! One story tells of the race for town mayor, it was a very close race. The incumbent used her campaign slogan time and again. The slogan was simple enough, and yet it holds a strong connection for anyone who ever has been in need of support. The slogan is "Mitford Takes Care of Its Own." When you couple such stories with the fact that I am about to watch my first-born son graduate from high school, you end up with a mother who really should have stock in a Kleenex company. Through this article, I want too share one particular insight I've had recently.

These days I am experiencing bittersweet emotion about the past 14 years. Along with the worries of final projects and graduation/reception details, there is also a great deal of pride at having reached this point in life with our son, Dillon. We haven't always known it would even be possible. When Dillon was about 5 years old, a quick mix of icy roads and a careless driver resulted in a car accident that has forever changed our family. Slowly we've pierced our lives back together. I remember how our gratefulness to have survived was tempered by the knowledge that from that moment on, Dillon would need lots of support in his life. Support from his friends and family, his "community." Many of my thoughts these days focus on our town. Now, I know Custer already has a catchy marketing theme, still ... if it ever needs another one ... the mayor of Mitford has a slogan that really wouldn't be a quantum leap.

This is an open note of gratitude to those people in our community who make up Dillon's community. I do not know where we would be without you! There is no way to ever repay a gift of the heart, yet we want to express our gratitude. If you have offered us any prayers or assistance these past years, then please accept our humble and heartfelt thanks. Know that you haven't just done a good deed — you have helped our family to feel some healing on a journey that has often seemed unbearable. We hope you know that in the scheme of things in this life, such acts cannot be outdone!

The years from the time of that traumatic event to now are so full of caring thoughts and gestures from those who make up our community, it would be simply impossible to list each one. If I were to attempt to chronicle all of the support we've received — season after season, year after year — would certainly need my own series of books! I will spare you that since my voice is not that of author. My voice is that of a mother — and a father — and two brothers.

There have been so many gifts of caring and fellowship, support with food and finances, heartfelt concern and shared wisdom … we have been the beneficiaries of gestures great and small. Bless the quiltmakers who have literally and figuratively helped us to put together the good parts. We feel so much gratitude for the help we have gotten along the way as we reach this graduation milestone. During the past 14 years, Dillon has found:

I could go on and on, but I would guess that enough has been said in order to give you a glimpse of the caliber of my thoughts and memories these days. We thank each and every one of our neighbors who have helped to raise this young man — we acknowledge that it is something we could not have done without your help. We will be so proud when that cap and gown fly by next Sunday. We hope that you can relish your part in this accomplishment, too!

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